Welcome to my "Kira's Blog"!
I thought that this would be an easy and helpful way of staying in more contact. I get so many emails I don't get to answer them all, or take so long in answering some people wonder if I am still getting their emails! So I thought I could share bits and pieces of interest here, post them as they come along into my life.
SMILES – a young leaders initiative in Nepal
Here is a short video of one of the young men that I help mentor here in Nepal. Santosh Poudel and his team 'SMILES', have initiated their own project to help rural villages in Nepal. Their project has provided a computer room at the local school, powering it with solar energy which also provides solar lighting for the school, plus they have built public toilets which is helping to bring awareness of sanitation. They involve the whole community in both the decision making and the building process and inspire the children into education too! It's Great work that they are doing!
The reason for the video is Santosh Poudel & Sibjan Chaulagain have won an award, The World Summit Youth Award for Education presented by "Young Digital Planet", in Montréal, Canada, an event designed for innovation in IT. Unfortunately, Santosh & Sibjan were not granted visa's to attend the conference and collect their award (due to them being young, single men of no financial status from a developing country Nepal). Therefore I made this short video so they could have some presence potentially ... now it looks like even this will not be screened ... so I thought perhaps by sharing it with friends more people can get behind and inspire these young men who are being active, despite the fact that they are recent graduates and are presently doing all this work as volunteers!
The Educating Of Women Is For ALL Of Us!
The recent shooting in Pakistan of a young woman, Malala, 14 years old, who was simply attempting to claim her right to education along with her male peers is a reminder that in many parts of the world the educating of women is still not seen as 'natural'.
To me it seems the only way we can truly help change on the planet is through sharing education, knowledge, and communication of options. By educating our girls we allow them to grow up into more educated mothers who can, in turn, better educate both their daughters and their sons! This chain of positive consequences can bring about healthy empowerment, reduce disease, and help with birth control. It can educate boys to be more respectful and balanced in their relationships to women and can support more peaceful options for our communities.
In my involvement in rural communities in Nepal, I have seen firsthand the power of educating girls and women – it is both deeply touching and inspiring.
I encourage all of us - men and women both - to use this shooting of Malala to remind us not to take equal treatment of girls and women for granted. Let it remind us to look around in our lives for balance, and for supportive ways of being together. Let it remind us to raise our voices in support for women (and men) to be educated, to be able to speak out when we see injustice without fear of being shot in the head!
For more depth on the shooting of Malala, you can read this article here:
and sign the petition to bring attention to this situation here:
WHAT IS SATORI?
Satori is your uncovering of you, a direct and real illumination that cannot be described, only experienced.
Next Satori groups:
October 19-25th in England, UK, with Clare Soloway
December 7-13th in Byron Bay, Australia, with Kira Kay
WHAT IS SATORI?
The word Satori originated in Japan and describes that moment of illumination that can only be described as a direct experience of profound truth that accompanied certain Zen practices. The experience of Satori can vary from person to person but the essence of the state is similar – a profound feeling of peace, a knowing, without doubt – truth. For some people the experience may only be a momentary glimpse, for others it may be an extended period – a common aspect, however, is that the knowledge of the experience is lasting.
Once a person experiences a Satori it can often mean that their life fundamentally changes. Their outward aspects may remain the same (e.g. the same job, relationship, house, country) but their experience of life and interactions with other people may deeply evolve. Often there is the experience of empowerment, a foundation within them creating a more relaxed outlook on life and choices. Many people after experiencing a Satori see the futility of the 'seeking' yet they often also realise that without the seeking they would never have come to the state of Satori.
WHAT BENEFIT DO I GAIN BY HAVING A SATORI?
A Satori allows you to experience your whole self, and that is inclusive of your humanness, your spirit – you. For many the experienced depth of acceptance is profoundly freeing. With the acceptance comes the ability to watch the process of the mind without becoming involved, without believing it - giving you back the sense of power and the realisation that YOU can, and do, have conscious choice in each situation, and that you are not a victim of circumstance but the creator of your life.
The more you see the natural flow of life the clearer it is to see your interaction in the relationships in your life from a more neutral perspective. This can support you to participate more deeply from less reaction, supporting understanding in your day-to-day interrelationships. Once you have experienced the freedom of Satori it also gives you the possibility to experience a life without tension or at the very least to realise that when you are in a state of tension, being gentle and caring with yourself relieves this tension.
While the focus of attaining Satori is to have a peak experience, the journey involved frequently provides a microcosmic look at your basic attitudes towards life. It lets you see your behaviours, the way you think, what you think, how your mind works - many of the aspects to which you may have been previously blind to.
WHAT CAN BE THE ONGOING BENEFIT FOR ME?
The depth of understanding and direct experience of Truth that you attain with a Satori continues with you into the rest of your life. As it is your experience and not a concept you have learned, it becomes a real tool and support for how you choose to live your daily life. Greater understanding of yourself and your basic behaviours naturally opens choices and options. What you do with this is entirely up to you and will depend on your actual life circumstances prior to having a Satori.
Satori truly is possible for you if you commit to yourself, if you are willing to invest the time and energy to uncover YOUR full potential. Begin to experiment, to explore and to be the pioneer to find yourself - to determine your own Truth. How much do you want it? Freedom is our natural birthright; a Satori illuminates this Truth clearly within you.
To be a human being is truly a gift. We often do not realise or appreciate the opportunity that we have right here, right now.
Continuing My Inspiring People Dialogue: Paul Lowe
I recently had an important 20th anniversary: the anniversary of when I consciously decided I needed to find out 'who am I?' ... What an amazing journey this question has taken - and is still taking - me upon!
I feel so grateful for the younger 'me' who had the courage to say yes to this deeper inquiry, even though at the time I was really scared, lost and unsure even of where to start. Thankfully, life helped me along... a lot! After sitting on a rock in the Snowy Mountains, Australia, I came to one of the most significant decisions in my life: not to continue with corporate law, and instead to embark on a discovery of who I am and what life is really about, and therefore what is really my purpose.
Two weeks after this epiphany, I met Paul Lowe, a significant and inspiring teacher on my path who remains a mentor, and also my dear friend, to this day. Up until meeting Paul I had never really heard of 'spirituality,' nor even of meditation. So when a friend said 'come along and meet this crazy guy who is teaching meditation this weekend,' I surprised even myself and responded 'yes, why not?!' Meeting Paul was a powerful confirmation of my recent decision. He spoke to what I felt deep inside me, and it was as if I had met someone to whom I could say everything I felt inside.
Over these past 20 years I have lived close enough to Paul's life to know that he really 'walks his talk.' I have experienced him going totally into whatever is arising, until it is no longer relevant or appropriate. This has had a deep impact for me personally as it has given me a living example of someone who simply 'goes for life,' who says everything he needs or wants to say, who goes wherever he wishes to go (I recall being a part of a few of those experiences!), who shares his attractions and sexuality fully, who says his truth in the simplest and most honest of moments – way too many to write about. They all flash before my eyes as examples over and over - especially if I try to get around my own truth! And then one of these moments comes as a reminder and encouragement to open another level within my own life.
I find that Paul's own quality of being total leaves him in a truly remarkable place of being able to connect, relate, and tune in with people – not their behavioral patterns, not their dramas or themes – but who they really are. He is able to connect with simple clarity to where the person really is, so that they can relate, soften, and hear him. I cannot begin to count the number of times I have been a witness to Paul in the depths of compassion through this meeting of another. Be it in a group dedicated to communication or on the street with strangers, or in a practical encounter like at the bank – without exception, he meets the person. Over the years I have known Paul, I have seen this refine and soften in him, and then refine more ... in ways I truly don't have words for. Maybe the nearest analogy would be a musician being in tune with his/her instrument in a way that it comes to the point that it is simply always sweetly singing ...
When I consider an example of an 'awake' person, this is my reference point, this level of 'being with,' which is deeply, intensely personal and yet at the same time not personal at all ... compassionate to a level that includes practically taking care of a person physically or financially, and at the same time being willing to share such an uncompromising level of truth that it may make a close relative or friend disown him. Without compromise or exception – he will 'be with what is'.
I have in the past twenty years met many, many different people, teachers, individuals – and Paul stands out as a light.
Even when I have felt very confronted by what Paul has said to me personally about my own behavior, something else within me has realised and recognised that what he has said has a 'ring of truth.' This has allowed me, in turn, to 'be with' what he has shared, to let it in and thereby help my own evolution. For this I am deeply appreciative and grateful.
If you would like to know more about Paul Lowe his website is:
To listen to recent audio recordings of Paul:
Inspiring People - Matthieu Ricard
I feel very fortunate and grateful to have met people who have inspired my own path in life – therefore I decided to share some of these people here and there on my Blog page to perhaps be of support to those of you reading here...
Matthieu Ricard - http://www.matthieuricard.org/en/
I have met Matthieu Ricard several times over the past few years and each time he has inspired me to greater depths of inner commitment and compassion in action. He has a delightfully light way of being in life, and a simple, humble way of sharing his wisdom, depth and consciousness.
Matthieu is a Tibetan Monk, originally from France, has a PhD in Genetic science, and lives his life moving between worlds of remote cave hermitage in Nepal and monasteries in Nepal, Tibet, Bhutan and India. He initiates humanitarian projects around the world, devoting himself as a guinea pig subject for experiments in Neurosocial Science. He engages political and business leaders at Davos world economic forum, and so much more. As an example of compassion in action – yes – he is a personal inspiration and beautiful being. Oh, and he is an exceptional photographer and excellent author of many books on meditation and more ... If you have a chance to meet him or attend a talk, enjoy the uplift of meeting such a beautiful person.
Here is a talk (in four parts) by Matthieu speaking in English in London, November, 2011 – talking on the benefits of cultivating our mental capacity, expressing about the science behind it, some practical question/answers and completing with a mindful meditation ... enjoy!
Peace One Day … Global Truce 21st September, 2012
This is an inspiring initiative by Jeremy Gilley, who over 10 years ago began this initiative, what he calls his ‘crazy idea’ - you can have a listen to how Jeremy came about to this initiative here: http://youtu.be/04SEzifEsGg
And more about this year’s initiative here:
Jeremy’s vision is of bringing a global focus, to bring attention to our interdependence, to bring at least one day of intentional focus on Peace. We can ALL join in whatever way or form we wish, at very least to take some minutes in this day to consider and contemplate this theme.www.peaceoneday.org
Peace, in my thinking, is not something that is only about ending the world wars and fighting, but also about how we are inside ourselves, in our relationships, our working places and everyday life. I do heart-fully believe that each one of us can, and all of us do, contribute to Peace on our planet. To say ‘I can't do anything’ is a cop-out and, in my view, a contribution to war and unrest. At the very least, we each can take time and space to contemplate the war/peace within ourselves. Perhaps to recognise how interrelated we all are, and to realise how or what our heart is inspiring us to contribute – within and without.
Therefore, as my constructive contribution on this Global Truce day on 21st September, 2012, I am hosting a meditation for friends, with Carlos Habig www.sound-diving.de playing his Sound-Diving instruments to complement and deepen the experience. I am inviting a relaxed communication space afterwards for whoever wishes to say what may have arisen in their meditation - an insight, vision or perhaps a new understanding.
My deeper wish for this day/life is for us all to engage in dialogue about peace on all levels of society - from within ourselves, our relationships, our schools, our communities as well as the more obvious levels of religions and countries. We do all make a difference. Choosing peace is a conscious choice we each need to make, each moment, each day.
My question and invitation to anyone reading this is …what are you going to contribute?
Ah … and I wish to finish off with two of my most favourite heart-touching songs of all time on the topic of Peace … John Lennon …
With love and sincere wishes & action for Peace … Kira
Come And Join Me ....
"The Sound Of One Hand Clapping"
Benefit Concert (free entry)
on 12-9-12 @ Passionskirche, Berlin @ 20.00 hr.
An evening of inspiration ...music, poetry, interesting people
& information about Hands-with-Hands projects in Nepal.
In 2008, my friend Dagmar had an inspiration, to bring onto the stage her speaking of poetry (Rumi, Hafiz, Rilke) accompanied by complimentary music. As she went to bring this into reality she realised that she did not want to do this just for herself, and thus came the inspiration to make it a benefit concert to support my projects in Nepal. www.handswithhands.com
This is now the 5th year of this event, and I have enjoyed being a part of the evolution. I particularly enjoy the natural space of giving and receiving that this event creates – the artists giving their talents; the audience receiving excellent music/poetry/creativity; the artists experiencing being received by the audience; the audience giving their attention; everyone giving some donation to Hands-with-Hands project initiatives; the people in Nepal receiving and benefiting from the gifts and the attentions; the projects and people in Nepal giving their gifts onwards in their participation; we all receiving the uplift out of poverty of women, children and whole families.
I love that one person following her heart and passion can have such a wider effect ... if you have time on 12th September, 2012 at 20.00 hr then come and join and celebrate with us. Give of your time and receive a wonderful gift ...
With love and appreciation for Dagmar Marth's creation ... http://www.dagmar-marth.de/
A Call To All Women … A Follow Up!
Several months ago I wrote an article inviting all women to shrug off our outdated beliefs and expectations of ourselves and others to truly 'be' the natural born woman that we are!· (http://www.kirakay.com/natural-born-woman.html) As we uncover our natural self, when we listen to our inner truth and have the courage to live from this place, it does make a difference in our own lives and the world in which we live - this note is a follow on and a personal request to join me!
I was recently listening to a discussion talk by women leaders in Australia, one comment towards the end was: " we women need to support one another, not work against each other – even if we don't agree with what our sister says, how can we still be of support? "
This statement deeply resonated with me. ·And the last few days have evolved into fresh creative ideas of collaboration with women. I do feel that if we meet together, and support one another to be clearer, then it is a contribution for all of us. Here are my creative suggestions for us all:
1. As a personal initiative, I open my home here in Berlin on the last Monday of the month (the first date will be Jan 30th, 2012) as a gathering space for women who wish to inspire and be inspired in a supportive environment. My vision is simply to gather alive, strong women who have a conscious intention to be of support with one another, this will naturally create an interactive dialogue – either as a whole group or clusters or both! Plus having space to naturally cuddle, chatter and nourish one another! This is not a workshop or seminar, simply an open space for women to consciously come together in mutual support. (please RSVP if you intend to join so that I can send you details of time/location)
2. I invite my women friends in other cities about the world to start a similar initiative - perhaps then we can even link up via Skype? Plus making it easier to visit with one another and connect/network.
3. I am initiating an interactive women's website forum where we can discuss and chat about the themes and issues that often relate to us specially – for example, how to be yourself and include your emotions in a boardroom of men?; how to be true to your inner integrity when faced with a barrage of 'reasonable' arguments or requests? How can we be more comfortable and alive in our body, our sexuality? How can I care for my breasts?; How can I be true to my vulnerability and be strong? And – I am sure there are hundreds (thousands?!) of other themes to be explored together! ·Plus, this can be a place where we can share inspiring talks, stories, initiatives ... more will come about this in the next weeks as it naturally, and organically, unfolds!
4. For the men in our lives – here in Berlin there is an ongoing men's gathering (contact me directly for details), plus, I encourage you all to initiate your own support groups too, in whichever city of the world you are!
In general, I feel it so helpful and synergistic to be coming together more often. When we meet up with a clear intent of supporting one another so much more creativity and potential can be unleashed. It supports each one of us to become more free and alive. Plus in this time when the world situation is in such a change and transition, it can be of real help when we meet together as natural and simple steps can evolve out of our meeting times.
I look forward to meeting many of you sometime soon!
With love, Kira